You need to learn how to use what you have to your advantage, instead of wishing you had a better body or better looks, you need to focus on what you DO have, like your winning smile, great sense of humor, or full head of hair. The lesson here is – take what you DO have and make it work for you! The seduction of mimi

We are always more critical of ourselves than others are of us. Think of what women have previously found attractive about you. Whatever it is you settle on, make that the forefront of your seduction. If you have a great smile – smile at the girl a lot. This can mean the difference between a successful seduction and a failure.

Once you’ve decided on your finest facial feature, you need to decide how to capitalize on it. Long lingering looks with those eyes of yours really could make her legs go wobbly – providing of course you don’t do too much of it, a shy smile to show your white but slightly crooked teeth could make her heart melt if done at the right time. Utilize your assets and you’re halfway there.

And while you’re doing this, don’t forget about the romance you’re trying to create! Men tend to ignore romantic gestures, but women place a lot of importance on them.

What all women do appreciate though is the odd gesture that shows you care or find her attractive. This doesn’t need to be an extravagant gift; it could be something as simple. Wrack your brains for something original, that you think she’d really like – a line of poetry snuck into her handbag, a small book or CD/DVD on a topic you’ve both talked about together so she remembers you, just something small but memorable.